Hi there, guess all of us know the meaning of DETAILED right?
For those who doesn't know, let me explain to you. According to the www.merriam-webster.com's dictionary, DETAILED means : marked by abundant detail or by thoroughness in treating small items or part. The synonym of DETAILED for me could be thorough, comprehensive, in depth or exhaustive.
Now we all know the meaning of the DETAILED but question is how are we going to relate it to our life? How does life related to the word DETAILED? Would it be good if we are being more thorough compare to others?Or likewise?
As for me, I thought i always been that detailed. In fact, my conscience is telling me that i've always been that detailed, precised in telling or sharing people my stories, my everyday's life and my everything. But i wasn't too late to find out that there's a girl who has been fabulous and tremendous to me ever since the day she stepped into my life. I didn't know well about her much but I could sense that she knows more about me, for the fact that she uses her heart to really learn who i am, and then falls in love with me deeply. I thanked god for that. SERIOUSLY.
I always thought i am good at sharing my emotion or my feelings with my love ones (Who else if not her?:)), but i was again wrong at judging my ownself. Sometimes, you just have to be more down to earth to learn more about yourself and to learnt from others about yourself. I knew i was right to learn from her. And I did. I let her talk all the way, typed as much as she can to know what message is she trying to bring to me. I tried my very best to figure it out as she continued her lecture.
Out of a sudden, I realized that i've been so wrong. I was on the wrong direction. It wasn't the right way one should love a person. In fact, her way of loving a person is nothing more but TRUE, HONEST and DETAILED. For a moment, i thought, "Hey, there's something i'm gonna learn from this girl. She maybe younger than me one year,but she has a point there you see." Let's say you went out with your friends and it was a great day as an example. You wanted to share it with your love ones.
So, you began to state your main points and started to crap for nothing. You began to find it boring and wanted to end the topic as quickly as possible. You thought are precised enough. You thought you already shared with her but the truth is you haven't. All you did was merely bring out a few main ideas,"share" with her and job DONE. I think that's what most of us guys do. That's why WE guys say girls are talkative. Girls are gossipers. Girls are "sam pat"(hokkien dialect. Means busybody). They have a point too actually. They just wanted to know things that are DETAILED enough for them.
I wasn't saying WE guys are wrong, but sometimes put in their shoes too. I think we can benefit alot from them too alright? Let's not say guys are always dominant than girls or either way. Difference that makes us guys and girls distinctive. That is why we should always incooperate to know more about each other. And that is how our LOVE evolved, blossomed, cuz we WANTED TO KNOW EACH OTHER BETTER. AND OF COURSE not merely flirting but we wanted to know each other more DETAILED. That's my promise to her. That's our love story.
What's yours?
